For an appraiser who has spent 30 or 40 years in the profession, there can be a reluctance to retire. If you’re no longer an “appraiser”, “Chief Appraiser”, “owner” or “MAI”…who are you?
Somewhere along the way, it became an identity. Someone asks, “What are you going to do when you retire?” You say, “Golf,” but you know that’s mostly a reflex. Because the real question underneath retirement is harder: Who am I when the thing I’ve been good at for decades is no longer what I do?
Loss of purpose: This is deeper than boredom. Slightly different from irrelevance. You need to feel useful to somebody. Work gave you a reason to matter every morning. What replaces that?
Loss of structure: For years, Monday meant something. Suddenly every day is Saturday. That sounds wonderful until you’ve had 300 Saturdays.
Boredom: What am I going to do all day? For someone who has spent decades solving problems, being needed and running hard, an empty Tuesday can seem scary.
Loss of tribe: People underestimate this. Your coworkers, clients, appraiser friends, conferences and phone calls are a social ecosystem. Retirement can quietly dismantle it.
Fear of getting old: Continuing to work can become evidence we present to ourselves: See? I’m still in the game. Retirement feels like admitting you’ve entered the final chapter.
How strange it is that after spending a career trying to earn freedom, many people finally get it and have no idea what to do with it.
Maybe you mentor young appraisers. Maybe you teach. Travel. Start another business. Restore cars. Invest in properties. Write the book that’s been bouncing around your head for years. Maybe Tuesday morning is coffee with your spouse instead of another appraisal review.
Or maybe you still appraise but because you choose to, not because you don’t know who you’d be without it. So maybe double down.
So as an appraiser, “I want to build my firm that everyone wants to work for. Be known for ridiculously good work and ridiculously good service. I want to Scale!”
If you’re a Chief Appraiser maybe its… “I want to build the appraisal department every bank wishes it had. Trusted by Credit, respected by regulators, loved by lenders and powered by the best people and technology in the industry.”
The next version of you is waiting, whatever that may be.
